You’re choosing to do that? How we invest our time, emotions and attention.
- Summary - Attention is our most precious gift. It is our tool, our weapon, and our controller. We create our lives through what we attend to (i.e., pay [...]
How merging personal and professional time knocks us off our game. (3 minute read)
- Summary: Blending personal and professional time knocks us off our game. We should decide what amount of work/play blending is acceptable, and when it can and cannot occur, before [...]
We feel and resonate with others, whether we want to or not. (3 minute read)
- Summary: We absorb others’ emotions and even their behaviors. To stay On Our Game we must notice when it happens and proactively manage it. ________________________________ That’s right. We feel [...]
IGNORING EACH OTHER KNOCKS US OFF OUR GAME (3 minute read)
Summary: Our culture of separation challenges a basic need for human engagement. Feeling connected helps us stay On Our Game! Resist being controlled by social queues to ignore others. [...]
Primed—The outside world is controlling my behavior, and I have no idea it’s happening.
- Summary: We may agree with a political view simply because we're bobbing our head up and down (in a yes motion) to background music...or walk more slowly after [...]
Who impacted you? The influence of people we don’t know. (3 minute read)
- Post 3 of 12 explaining impacts from People, Culture and Technology. - The one line summary: Even people we've never met impact us. We must notice and manage [...]
How People Silently Influence Us (3 minute read)
- Post 2 of 12 explaining impacts from People, Culture and Technology. - The one line summary: We adopt others people's behaviors, emotions, motivations, and goals. We must notice [...]
We Feel What Others Feel, Whether We Want To or Not
- Summary: On Game Achievement means we control how other people's emotions impact us. ________________________________ 1. We feel and resonate with others, whether we want to or not. This human-to-human [...]
Who Is Responsible For Our Achievement? We Are! But that’s Not The Full Story.
This is a key question many of us don’t fully resolve - or live up to. My research shows so many of us experience achievement below our potential, and yet [...]
A Fast Way To Up Your Game!
Why? Because it adds structure. And structure adds effectiveness. My research shows we notice off-game impacts all the time, we just don’t do anything about them! Frustrated about something? NOTICE [...]